2 Kings 8:16-24 (Part 2) – Ralyn & The Great Welch’s Snack Pack Incident of 2019

Posted: June 23, 2019 in 99-Uncategorized

2 Kings 8:16-24 (Part 2 of 2)

Jehoram Reigns in Judah

This week, Elena and I have been staying with my daughter, my son-in-law, and my granddaughter. This week, I have gotten to see all of my granddaughter’s behavior, not just the best of it. We have seen some of her two year old (a month a way from three now) nuclear meltdowns when it comes to behavior. Most of the time, Ralyn is the sweetest, most well-behaved little child you will ever meet. For a child that is less than three years old, she has such good speech and diction, you would think she is a child twice her age. Most of the time, she has wonderful manners. Yes and Yes ma’am and Yes sir. Thank you. Please. All the appropriate social graces for a child. And to listen to her tell stories, it is just so entertaining. She is so expressive. She doesn’t struggle with words because she has such a good vocabulary. Without the struggle for words, she concentrates on voice inflection and hand gestures. It’s just so amazing to have a conversation with her because it is so uncommon to be able to have a real conversation with a child of this age. And, she is so funny sometimes without even realizing it. It’s just a joy to watch her growing up.

However, when you are with a child 24/7, you get to see it all. You get to see the behavior meltdowns too. You get to see what their parents get to see. Friday evening was a particular troublesome evening when it comes to behavior. She was just sassy to everyone. This was the evening of the Great Welch’s Fruit Snack Pack Incident of 2019.

Because Ralyn had not had a nap on Friday, her behavior began deteriorating in the afternoon. Everything was a problem. Everything was a struggle. Sassy-ness was the order of the day. Since we came to visit after our trip to the beach, we brought all our food that we had not eaten up while at the beach. Part of that stash of food was a box of Welch’s fruit snacks. Elena and I love them. Just a quick snack not requiring a large investment of time and preparation. Ralyn loves them too. So, from Wednesday through Friday, Ralyn and her Papa would grab a pack each and sit and eat them together. So, by Friday evening we were down to the last snack pack in the box. Ralyn got it and everything was cool until I offered to open it for her (since she struggles with getting them open). But oh my that’s when the trouble began. She sass-mouthed her Papa saying it’s not yours, it’s mine in the most “terrible two” way possible. Not once but multiple times. That was it for her mom. The snack pack was taken away. Apology was required and when it was not given, a spanking ensued. The crying and pouting ensued. She was made to go to bed right then. And man it all could have been avoided had she just listened to what Papa was going to say – the offer for help, rather than being selfish and disrespectful.

The Great Welch’s Fruit Snack Pack Incident of 2019 with Ralyn was what I thought of this morning as I re-read this passage, 2 Kings 8:16-24, for the second of two times.  Let’s read it together now with an eye toward how selfish desires affect us in our relationship with God:

16 Jehoram son of King Jehoshaphat of Judah began to rule over Judah in the fifth year of the reign of Joram son of Ahab, king of Israel. 17 Jehoram was thirty-two years old when he became king, and he reigned in Jerusalem eight years. 18 But Jehoram followed the example of the kings of Israel and was as wicked as King Ahab, for he had married one of Ahab’s daughters. So Jehoram did what was evil in the Lord’s sight. 19 But the Lord did not want to destroy Judah, for he had promised his servant David that his descendants would continue to rule, shining like a lamp forever.

20 During Jehoram’s reign, the Edomites revolted against Judah and crowned their own king. 21 So Jehoram[a] went with all his chariots to attack the town of Zair.[b] The Edomites surrounded him and his chariot commanders, but he went out at night and attacked them[c] under cover of darkness. But Jehoram’s army deserted him and fled to their homes. 22 So Edom has been independent from Judah to this day. The town of Libnah also revolted about that same time.

23 The rest of the events in Jehoram’s reign and everything he did are recorded in The Book of the History of the Kings of Judah. 24 When Jehoram died, he was buried with his ancestors in the City of David. Then his son Ahaziah became the next king.

In this passage, we see that, during Jehoram’s reign in Judah, a revolt began by the Edomites. The Edomites had been under the control of what was the united kingdom of Israel since the time of David. Under David, the kingdom of Israel expanded to it widest realm of influence that the Jewish kingdom had ever known. It was then maintained and great building projects occurred under David’s son, Solomon. However, because of all the in-fighting among David’s children and grandchildren, the kingdom split in two and each gradually became weaker as the kingdoms descended into disobedience toward the Lord. Here, in this passage, we see that Edom won its independence from Judah. Now, Judah and the northern kingdom of Israel would begin their slow decline into becoming non-influential nations that would ultimately be occupied by a successive larger and more powerful nation/kingdoms – beginning with the Assyrians for the northern kingdom, followed by the Babylonians and Persians for the southern kingdom. That was then followed by the Greeks who occupied both the north and the south under Alexander the Great. That was followed by the kingdoms that developed by the four generals of Alexander after his death. Then, came the long, long occupation under the Romans all the way up to the point that the Jerusalem was destroyed and the Jews were finally dispersed and Israel and Judah were no more after 70AD.

What we see in the beginnings of the decline here was both Israel and Judah became less and less concerned with obeying God and more and more concerned with getting their own way and doing what they wanted. Instead of observing God’s laws (that were intended to preserve the nation and allow them to flourish in the freedom of God’s protection), they began to see these laws as restrictive and they began to go their own way and do their own thing. As a result of selfish desires and behaviors, the kingdom split in two and became weaker. As a result of selfish desires and behaviors, the two nations made deals with other nations that made them weaker and made them susceptible to foreign practices and beliefs that were ungodly. Steadily, steadily, their disobedience and ungodly behavior led to loss of lands and influence and ultimately to occupation and destruction. We see the beginning of this loss of influence here with the revolt and independence of Edom.

Similarly, sudden selfishness led Ralyn down a path of losing her fruit snack pack and instead of repenting of that bad behavior she continued in it. She continued in her bad behavior to the point that she lost her right to stay up with the grown-ups and was forced to go to be early. Without repentance, the rebellion continued and she lost the freedom she enjoyed just a few minutes earlier. Without repentance, she lost all her freedom and had to go to bed as punishment. Her behavior and the behavior of Israel and Judah should be a reminder to us all.

God’s expectations of us are not to hold us back and restrict us. God wants us to obey Him so that we can experience the freedoms that come with obeying Him. His so called rules for our behavior are really intended to prevent us from destroying ourselves. They are there because He loves us and wants to protect us from that which is evil for us and that will destroy us. As children, we see our parents’ rules as restrictive but when we disobey our parents’ rules, we find out that our parents really do have our best interest at heart. We find out that we have more freedom when we obey our parents’ commands. We find our that life is more peaceful and we actually have more freedom. It is the same way with God. When we obey Him, we have more freedom, we have more influence, we seem to be able to handle what life throws at us with less stress and trouble.

Ralyn learned, I hope, from the Great Welch’s Fruit Snack Pack Incident of 2019 that disobedience, though self-satisfying, will lead to loss of freedom. Maybe, she learned that repentance when we have disobeyed can help us reclaim the blessings in which we were operating. Maybe, she learned that the lack of repentance, rebellion, will led us to lose all of our freedom and influence that we once enjoyed under the blessing of God. Maybe, you and I need to learn these things too in our grown-up lives, not just Ralyn in her “terrible two” meltdown during the Great Welch’s Fruit Snack Incident of 2019.

Amen and Amen.

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