1 Kings 22:51-53 – No Matter How Old They Get, They Are Still Watching!

Posted: March 28, 2019 in 11-1 Kings

1 Kings 22:51-53

Ahaziah Begins His Reign in Israel

Today, we finish out the book of 1 Kings. We have camped out here for 191 days and watched Israel descend into unrepentant idolatry and into a divided nation from its height of unity and power under the king that was “a man after God’s own heart”, David. We end here with Ahaziah assuming the throne of the northern kingdom while Jehoshaphat continues as the king of the southern kingdom. My what a strange trip it has been. So, today in our passage that concludes the book of 1 Kings, we see that with the rise of Ahaziah to the throne there is no change. He is the son of Ahab and Jezebel, the most wicked king and queen in the history of Israel. So what did we expect? That he would be different from his mom and dad?

That question was what struck me this morning. What do you expect of your kids if you are not following God yourself? It made me think of my oldest daughter and it made me think of my dear friends here in Illinois, Matt and Maria. And, it made me think of the question, what are you passing on to your children? They are watching not just as little children, such as with Matt and Maria’s child, but also as grown children, as with my own oldest child. No matter how long you have been a parent and even if your kids are grown and out of the house, they are still watching us and still imitating us. Though they may not claim that they are imitating us, they do. How can they not? A parent is the greatest influence and predictor of how a child will turn out as anything. We stack the deck on how our kids are going to turn out as adults by the life that they view growing up. We like to think that it doesn’t matter how we act around our kids but it DOES matter. They are watching, imitating, recording, and ingraining behaviors based on the environment of their home.

My first thought was of Matt and Maria. These two young kids (they are in their twenties) that Elena and I have met here in Illinois are kind of surrogate children for us. We love these two people like proud parents love their grown kids. Matt and Maria both come from non-church backgrounds and lived life far from God as they will tell you. Something was always missing to them in their lives and they tried to fill it with other things, as we all do before we come to the cross. The course of their lives was going to be much like the lives of generations in their families. However, somehow and some way God drew them unto Himself. One of the factors that changed everything was when they had a child together. Then, they began going to Calvary Church and decided to follow Jesus. Everything has changed for them. They are a mighty influence on their families. Family members are beginning to come to church now and the ripples of their decision will echo in eternity. But the biggest ripple of all will be in their own household. They are living it out in front of their young daughter. Imagine, with this child being raised in a home where Jesus is front and center and all the heartache and mistakes and bad decisions she may be able to avoid just because of her mom and dad. They are watching. Matt and Maria, thinking of them, just swells my heart with paternal-like pride. I am proud to see them raising their child in the ways of the Lord at such a young age themselves. I am so glad that they did not wait to come to Jesus as late in life as I did. Looking forward to the day when Matt calls me beaming with pride because his daughter accepted Jesus as Her personal Lord and Savior. The ripples will continue from there. The kids, they are watching.

My second thought was of my oldest daughter, Meghan. She was born when I was 23 years old and such a young and dumb guy I was. When you think back to how really ignorant we are as parents when we are in our 20’s it helps you realize that there is indeed a God. He gives us the ability to begin to know and understand this whole parent thing pretty quickly. And He watches over our kids as we blunder through and learn more and more about parenting. My regrets about parenting my children are a mile-wide and a mile-long. Much of it has to do with not coming to know Jesus as my Savior and Lord until I was 39 years old. It was after my salvation that my daughter came to know Jesus as her Savior as well. And as I bumbled through and continue to bumble through growing as a Christ follower, I have seen my daughter mature in Christ also. She doesn’t talk much about spiritual things being a busy mom and school teacher. But there are occasions when I read her words or hear her speak (when we speak of spiritual matters), when I know this sweet girl gets it. She has a depth of soul that makes me know that understands her relationship with Jesus Christ and how He is active in our daily lives. Sure, I have so many regrets of all the mistakes that I made in raising her, but knowing that she is secure in Jesus’ hands makes up for all that. Knowing that she has a heart for Jesus makes believe that she has been watching me these last 17 years since my salvation and particularly the last 11 years where I have grown so much in Christ myself. No matter how old our kids get, they still watch us. They still imitate us. They still follow our lead – even sometimes when they would not admit that they are.

That’s what I thought of this morning as I was reading this final passage of 1 Kings (1 Kings 22:51-53) – about how Ahab’s son, Ahaziah, was following the pattern set down by his parents. That thought of that we as parents create the spiritual environment in which our kids grow up in and they are watching and imitating and following us. Let’s read the passage now:

51 Ahaziah son of Ahab began to rule over Israel in the seventeenth year of King Jehoshaphat’s reign in Judah. He reigned in Samaria two years. 52 But he did what was evil in the Lord’s sight, following the example of his father and mother and the example of Jeroboam son of Nebat, who had led Israel to sin. 53 He served Baal and worshiped him, provoking the anger of the Lord, the God of Israel, just as his father had done.

In this, the final, passage of 1 Kings, we see that 1 Kings begins a nation unified under David, the most devout king in Israel’s history. The book ends with a divided kingdom and the death of the king of the northern kingdom, Ahab, the most wicked of all the kings of Israel. What happened? The people forgot to acknowledge God as their ultimate leader. They appointed human leaders who ignored God. They conformed themselves to the lifestyles of these leaders. Occasional wrongdoing turned into a way of life. Their blatant wickedness could be met only with judgement from God, who allowed enemy nations to arise, harass, and defeat Israel and Judah in wars as punishment for unrepentant lifestyles of sin.

The takeaway this morning is for us as parents is just this – no matter how old our kids get, they are watching us. Matt and Maria still have a young child. They can make a huge difference in whether their child comes to Jesus or not and whether she comes to Jesus at an early age or not. The impact of Matt and Maria being Christ followers will have ripple effects for generations. Their child is watching. Their child is imitating. Their child will follow their lead. May she grow up in Jesus and never depart from it. It is the same with my adult, oldest daughter. She is a Christ follower because she was watching me. Even now as the parent of three adult daughters, I know they are watching and I want my actions to be Christ-like so that they can see that consistency. I also want them watching me when I do commit sins that grieve God and see my admit my mistakes, and turn from them. They are watching. I pray too that my oldest daughter and her husband remember that that my granddaughter is watching, imitating, and following their lead. I pray that my daughter and her husband will raise their child in the ways of the Lord so that she will never depart from it. My prayer for Ralyn is that she never has to go down any of the roads of heartache that come from unrepentantly sinful living. It only brings heartache and destruction. I simply do not want her to have to ride the rides that I have ridden. May she grow up in a home where Jesus is front and center. So that she can watch. So that she can imitate. So that she can follow. So that she can be a Christ follower.

Amen and Amen.

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