Would You Give Your Wife Leftover Flowers on Your Anniversary?: Why Then Do We Give Our Leftovers To God

Posted: May 5, 2015 in Gospel of Luke
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Luke 21:1-4 — Yesterday, we talked about how we must rewrite Scripture to avoid shining the light of the Bible on our own shortcomings when it comes to giving unto the Lord. Today, we will talk about honoring God with our finances and trusting Him with the results.

How do we honor people in our lives? We give them awards. We give them special recognition. We give them gifts. When we do this, we are saying you are important to me. You are worthy of the praise that I am giving you. Men, how do we honor our wives? We remember anniversaries. We shower them with flowers. We also honor them by opening doors for them. We honor them by telling them that they are beautiful. We honor them by giving required answers such as, “No darling, that dress does not make you look fat!” We honor them by taking them on romantic getaways for the weekend. We honor them by providing for their needs and making them feel secure. We do so many things to honor our wives and to let them know that they are important to us.

What if? What if we gave them some flowers we found in a trash can on our way home on the day of our anniversary, or her birthday, or some other important occasions. What if for a romantic weekend getaway we gave them a weekend at a Days Inn in Duncan, SC (no offense to Duncan. I live there and I am proud of my town but its not romantic getaway place for sure). What if you went out with the boys on a Friday and showed up at home at 10:30 telling your wife that its time for your date with what time’s left in the evening? What if…? You get the picture. Giving your wife your leftover time, giving your wife your leftover gifts, giving your wife just what you can scrounge up is not the secret to a happy marriage.

I use this illustration to point out that if you wouldn’t dare to treat the lady in your life in this manner, why then do we treat God this way. He is supposed to be the most important thing in our lives. We are told to put God first in our lives. We are told to love God with all of our mind, heart, soul and strength. Our love affairs with our wives are supposed to be symbolic of the way we are in love with God. We are to love God and put Him first in our lives. We are to love God and put Him first in every aspect of our lives. We are even supposed to put Him ahead of our spouses. All of us buy into this concept. I believe it to be true. If you do not get your relationship with God right, if you don’t put Him first in everything that you do in life, none of the rest of your life works properly. None of our relationships work right when we put something above God. However, there is alway a but, as the old saying goes. Why is it that we treat God like a left over pork chop in the fridge when it comes to our finances. We rewrite Scripture so that we can ignore his command to give him a tenth of what we make at least.

We give Him the leftover $20 bill from our Saturdays out on the town. We give Him the leftover $20 from our Saturdays at Death Valley or Williams-Brice. We give Him the leftover $20 after we pay for the Jet Ski. We give Him the leftover $20 after we pay for the house that we cannot afford. You get the picture. Your wife would not stand for you just giving her hand-me-down gifts of your leftover time so why do we treat God in this way. We should shower Him with praise and no place is this more evident than giving Him praise in our finances. Let us give Him praise by arranging our lives where we live off of 90% or less of our income so that we honor Him. If you stand and give praise to the Lord and say Amen when you hear that He knitted you together in your mother’s womb, but yet say it is your talents and your money, then are saying that you do not believe that He gave you your talents. Let us praise Him with the full honor and glory that He deserves in every area of our lives. Let us give Him praise by honoring His Word and accepting all of it as valid to our lives.

Do you trust God? Apparently, most of us don’t when it comes to our finances. We feel like we are throwing our money away when we give it to God. There is no obvious benefit to it, many of us think. How can I pay for all the things that I have to pay for and still give to this black hole for which I see no return on my investment. Have you ever thought that it is all the things that you have to pay is the reason that there is this constant state of emergency when it comes to your finances. When you give to the Lord through your local church, it has nothing to do with bankrolling the pastor team’s lifestyle. It has nothing to do with funding church outreach, church programs, etc. It has everything to do with trusting God. Do you trust God enough to take Him at his Word. This is one area of life that God invites us to test Him. In Malachi 3:10, He says it. The Lord said, “”Bring the whole tithe into the storehouse, so that there may be food in My house, and test Me now in this,” says the LORD of hosts, “if I will not open for you the windows of heaven and pour out for you a blessing until it overflows.” He says this after He curses Israel for having robbed Him by not bringing the best of the best as an offering to Him. When have lived our lives for our things that we want and have only leftovers for God, there is a lack of trust there.

I know this for a fact in my own life. Chasing the American Dream of having what everyone else has regardless of my financial situation left me in such a bind that I could not make ends meet even when I was making good money. It wasn’t until my wife suggested that I clean my credit up and get all my debts paid off. Although it was just her concern for my credit that motivated that fateful conversation, it was the Holy Spirit at work in our lives. Slowly but surely over the years we began paying off my debts and worked our way into tithing. Now, talk about a change in perspective. When we give God the first fruits of our labor, it changes your perspective on things. We no longer care if we have the finest house, finest car, we have found peace in living off much less than we make. There is peace in that. That is the blessing. It is the peace in knowing that we are obeying God. It is peace in knowing that we have never done without when we have trusted God with the tithe. It is peace knowing that we are not leaving a legacy of debt to our children. It is peace knowing that we don’t have to have the latest and greatest (because guess what, within six months it’s going to be replaced by the newest of the latest and greatest). Giving God the first fruits of your money changes your perspective toward things of God rather than things of this earth. It gives you a new perspective on helping others rather than acquiring new debt. The devil wants us broke and overextended. Because when we are broke and overextended, our mind is not on God. Our mind is not on others. We are caught up in the me factory of endless payments. We are then ineffective.

Do you trust God with your money? He invites you to honor Him with your money. He says test me in this. He says test me in obedience to His Word. Do you trust God? Do you honor God?

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